Child custody and support rules in Portugal, explained
How Portugal decides joint vs sole parental responsibilities, how child support is set by needs and means, and why it can run until age 25 — in plain English.
Mutual-consent divorce at the Civil Registry vs contested divorce in court in Portugal — requirements, documents, asset division by regime, and timelines.
Ler em portuguêsIn short: Portugal gives you two routes to divorce. If you both agree, you divorce by mutual consent (mútuo consentimento) at a conservatória do registo civil (Civil Registry) — no judge, no reason required (Código Civil arts. 1773, 1775). If one spouse refuses, the other files a contested divorce (sem consentimento) at the Family and Children's Court on a ground in art. 1781. The route decides your paperwork and timeline; your property regime decides who keeps what. CourtStairs answers Portuguese and EU family-law questions like these in plain language, with citations to the Diário da República you can check yourself.
This post lays the two routes side by side — the requirements, the documents you must gather, how assets divide by regime, and realistic timelines. It is written for expats, foreigners, and Portuguese readers searching in English.
Portugal has two routes: mutual consent (mútuo consentimento) at a Civil Registry, and contested divorce (sem consentimento) in court. Which one applies turns entirely on whether both spouses agree to end the marriage. Since Lei n.º 61/2008 overhauled the law, fault is no longer a stand-alone ground and the process is faster and more administrative.
| Mutual consent (mútuo consentimento) | Contested (sem consentimento) | |
|---|---|---|
| Both spouses agree? | Yes | No — one spouse proceeds alone |
| Where it's handled | Conservatória do registo civil (Civil Registry) | Juízo de Família e Menores (court) |
| Need a "reason"? | No — the joint decision suffices (art. 1773) | Yes — a ground in art. 1781 |
| Who decides | The conservador (registrar) | A judge |
| Lawyer | Usually optional | Normally required |
| Typical timeline | Days to ~3 months | Many months to 1 year+ |
| Agreements upfront | Assets, home, maintenance, children (art. 1775) | Decided by the court if not agreed |
When both spouses agree, they file a joint application at any conservatória do registo civil and a registrar (conservador) decrees the divorce — no judge and no reason required. This is the common, fast route for couples who agree the marriage is over. It needs no judge and no proof of any reason — the shared decision is enough (Código Civil art. 1773). You file a joint application at any conservatória do registo civil.
Under art. 1775, the application must be accompanied by a specific set of documents and agreements:
The registrar reviews the agreements to check they protect both spouses. Where there are minor children, the parental-responsibilities agreement is first sent to the Ministério Público (Public Prosecutor) for approval; only then is the divorce decreed.
Yes — the other spouse files a contested divorce (sem consentimento) at the Family and Children's Court on an objective ground in Código Civil art. 1781; consent speeds the process but is not a veto. If one spouse will not agree, the other can still divorce — this route goes to the Juízo de Família e Menores (Family and Children's Court). You no longer have to prove your spouse was "at fault." Instead you rely on one of the objective grounds in art. 1781:
Ground (d) is a general clause with no minimum time requirement — it lets a court dissolve a marriage that has clearly ended even where the timed grounds don't yet apply. The judge first attempts conciliation and may steer the parties toward a mutual-consent conversion; if that fails, the case proceeds as an ordinary civil action, which is why it takes far longer.
Division depends entirely on your marriage property regime (regime de bens), not on who "wins" the divorce. Under the default community of acquired property, assets bought during the marriage are common and split 50/50 while each spouse keeps what they owned before; under separation of property there is no common estate to divide. The single biggest factor in who keeps what is your marriage property regime (regime de bens). If you signed no prenuptial agreement, the default in Portugal is community of acquired property (comunhão de adquiridos, art. 1717). The three main regimes divide very differently.
| Regime | What is common | What happens on divorce |
|---|---|---|
| Comunhão de adquiridos (default) | Assets acquired during the marriage | Common assets split 50/50 (art. 1730); each keeps pre-marriage and inherited/gifted property |
| Comunhão geral de bens | Almost everything, including pre-marriage assets | Divided in half — but art. 1790 caps what a spouse can take |
| Separação de bens | Nothing is common | Each keeps what is in their own name; jointly bought items split by proven contribution |
Under any community regime, spouses share the common estate — assets and debts — by half (meação, art. 1730). Separate ("own") property — what you brought in, plus most inheritances and gifts — stays yours. There is an important cap for the broadest regime: art. 1790 says neither spouse may receive more than they would have under the community of acquired property, so comunhão geral cannot be used to walk away with a share of the other's pre-marriage wealth.
You need your marriage certificate, ID and NIF for both spouses, and — for a mutual-consent filing — the full art. 1775 package of asset list and agreements. Whichever route you take, some paperwork is common. For a mutual-consent filing you build the full art. 1775 package yourself; for a contested case the court gathers what is missing. Have ready:
A mutual-consent divorce at the Civil Registry costs €280 without a property split, or €625 when you also divide and register the couple's assets in the same process (IRN fees). A contested court divorce costs more once you add court fees and, in practice, lawyers. Couples who prove they cannot afford it can apply for legal aid (apoio judiciário) and pay nothing.
| Scenario | Typical cost | Where |
|---|---|---|
| Mutual consent, no property split | €280 | Conservatória do registo civil |
| Mutual consent with partilha (asset division registered) | €625 | Conservatória do registo civil |
| Proven financial hardship | €0 (legal aid) | Either route |
| Contested divorce | Court fees + lawyer fees | Juízo de Família e Menores |
Divorce ends the marriage but not every obligation: a court or agreement can still set spousal maintenance, assign the family home, and fix custody and child support. As a rule each spouse must provide for themselves, but agreement or a court can set spousal maintenance (alimentos) where one genuinely needs it (Código Civil art. 2016). The family home can be assigned to one spouse regardless of who owns it, and parental responsibilities — custody, contact and child support — are decided in the children's best interest, by the approved agreement or by the judge.
For how custody and child support are actually decided, see Child custody and support in Portugal. If you were never married, the rules differ — compare marriage vs união de facto.
Working out which route applies, which ground you can use, and how your regime splits the assets is exactly what CourtStairs answers — in plain language, with each point tied to its source: art. 1773 for the two routes, art. 1775 for the Civil Registry process, art. 1781 for the grounds, and arts. 1717, 1730 and 1790 for the property split, so you can open the Diário da República and read it yourself. It works in English and Portuguese and has a free tier.
This is general information about the law, not legal advice. The right route, the available grounds, and the exact division depend on your property regime, whether there are minor children, and rules that change over time — so confirm anything important against the primary source or a lawyer before you act.
You need both spouses to agree and a joint application to any conservatória do registo civil (Civil Registry). With it you file a list of common assets, and agreements on the family home, on spousal maintenance if any is owed, and — if you have minor children — on parental responsibilities. You do not have to give any reason for the divorce.
A mutual-consent divorce with no minor children is often decreed in a single conference or within a few weeks — usually under three months. A contested divorce runs on a court litigation timeline and commonly takes many months to over a year, depending on the disputes and the court's workload.
Yes. You file a contested divorce (sem consentimento) at the Family and Children's Court under Código Civil art. 1781 — for example after one year of factual separation, or on the general ground that the marriage has definitively broken down. A spouse who refuses can slow the process but cannot block it permanently.
It depends entirely on your marriage property regime. Under the default community of acquired property (comunhão de adquiridos) assets bought during the marriage are common and split 50/50, while each spouse keeps what they owned before. Under separation of property there is no common estate to divide.
A mutual-consent divorce at the Civil Registry costs €280 when there is no division of assets, or €625 when the couple divides and registers their property in the same process (IRN/gov.pt fees). Couples who prove they cannot afford it can apply for legal aid (apoio judiciário) and pay nothing. A contested court divorce adds court fees and lawyer costs.
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CourtStairs gives you legal information, not legal advice. Every situation differs — speak to a lawyer about your own matter.